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Understanding The Fundamentals of Child Custody | Guest Post by Sam Mazella child custody custody divorce mediation Feb 03, 2020
Note:  Every state’s laws are slightly different.  This article is written by The Peterson Law Firm of Arizona.

When there are children involved in a divorce, one of the biggest and most important questions is, "Who gets custody of the children?" As the welfare and best interests of the children sh...

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Study Finds that Child Support Rates Can Vary $700+ Among States | Guest Post by Custody Xchange custody divorce Jun 12, 2019

Study finds inconsistency in child support rates among states

A typical parent's payment can vary by over $700 a month from state to state

The size of your child support payment depends heavily on where you live, according to a new study.

A parent can pay almost three times as much as one who liv...

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Divorce Happens. What Now? divorce May 14, 2019

Marriages fail.  Some individuals choose divorce and take a chance on living differently with the dream of being happier and more fulfilled.  

Once the decision to divorce is made, and it is rarely if ever an easy one, there are approaches to make divorce simpler, gentler, and less contentious.  It...

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Divorce and Valentines Day: Choose to Indulge in You divorce Feb 12, 2019

If you have recently decided to divorce, you have been feeling lonely, abandoned and unfulfilled for a long time.  

Being in a relationship and feeling lonely is more painful than being alone and feeling lonely because you feel so stuck, and it’s just not supposed to be this way.

Valentine’s day ...

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What You Need to Know About New York Divorce Records and Privacy Laws divorce Nov 26, 2018

In New York, all documents filed in your divorce action, including pleadings, financial documents, and Final Judgment of divorce are sealed.  

According to Domestic Relations Law 235, these records are sealed for 100 years in order to protect a divorcing spouse from potentially embarrassing and pai...

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How to Get a Divorce - 7 Steps to Get Started for a Stress-Free Divorce divorce Nov 22, 2018

You've decided to get a divorce. Or worse, your partner has just brought up the "divorce" topic.

Hurt, anger and uncertainty are paralyzing you.

Your emotional response to divorce is normal and understandable.

Divorce is one of the most difficult and overwhelming transitions we will ever face.  

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How Much Does a Divorce Cost? Breaking Down All the Costs of Divorce divorce Aug 06, 2018

When considering divorce, your legal costs will be the most significant.  While matrimonial attorneys charge hourly rates ranging from $100 to $800+, the average hourly charge nationwide is $250.  

However in some regions of the country legal fees are much higher with many matrimonial attorneys cha...

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New Study Shows that Dads are Now Getting More Custody Time divorce Jul 10, 2018

Dads are Getting More Custody Time

There is a revolution occurring regarding custody time for fathers.

While it is unevenly distributed around the country, the courts are awarding dads more custody over their children post-divorce than they have in previous generations.

By 1997, more than 25% o...

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Is Your Ex a Narcissist? Read About My Day in Family Court and How I Handled My Narcissist Ex-Husband. divorce Jun 24, 2018

Can you believe it?  I’m sitting in Family Court for the second time in a month.  

I’m not worried.  I’ve been here before and have advised my clients on how to manage their time inside this emotionally-charged environment.

Family Court is where people go for orders of protection and/or issues wit...

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When Your Kids Prefer Your Ex-Husband, even on Mother’s Day coparenting divorce holidays mothers day parallel parenting post-divorce May 07, 2018

When Your Kids Prefer Your Ex-Husband, even on Mother’s Day

My ex-husband’s first weekend with the kids post-divorce was Father’s Day. “How apropos”, I recall thinking to myself. Of course he bought the most adorable Welsh Terrier puppy for the kids. I remember how their faces lit up, how ecstatic ...

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Death (of a marriage) and Taxes | Divorce and Taxes 1040 april 15th april 17th divorce divorce and taxes divorced head of household irs irs forms single tax tax credit tax day tax penalties taxes Apr 08, 2018

I was not prepared for the consequences of divorce and taxes, and learned some important lessons about the vital role my accountant could have played in my divorce negotiations.  We split the kids as dependents and my ex-spouse wanted the younger child so he could benefit financially for a few years...

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5 Movies To Get You Through Divorce divorce Mar 02, 2018

It’s the weekend and the reality of divorce can no longer be muted with the distractions of the work week.  The relaxing downtime that couldn’t get here quick enough before is now dreaded.  We know how you feel; so to keep your mind occupied we put together a list of our favorite divorce movies. It’...

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