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Special Guest: Lesa Koski - High Conflict Coparenting: Tips and Tools for Staying Kid-Centric coparenting high conflict coparenting high conflict divorce high conflict marriage high conflict mediation successful divorce Oct 06, 2023
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Co-parenting in after the standard, ‘garden variety' divorce can be difficult. When you add high conflict divorce where communicating, collaborating, showing respect, kindness and grace is often absent, co-parenting takes on a new level of complexity. Today my friend, Lesa Kos...

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All Things Parenting: When Divorce Collides with Raising Complex Kids with Diane Dempster complex kids coparenting parenting after divorce raising kids May 30, 2023

Today we are discussing what happens when Divorce Collides with Raising Complex Kids. If you are raising a complex kid, you know the unique challenges you face. These difficulties may even have played a role in the dissolution of your marriage.  

Today we’re joined by my dear friend and colleagu...

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All Things Parenting: The Business Partnership Approach to Successful CoParenting with Janet Price all things parenting conscious coparenting conscious parenting coparenting mindful parenting parenting and divorce May 09, 2023

Welcome to The Business Partnership Approach to Successful CoParenting. Parenting is one of the most difficult jobs we are called to do. In healthy marriages, parents come from different parenting experiences and values and can be challenged to find common ground, how are you to co parent when di...

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All Things Parenting: 6 Steps to Successfully Negotiate CoParenting Conflicts w/Rick and Diane Dierks blended family coparenting coparents divorce journey parenting after divorce Apr 06, 2023

After your divorce is finalized,  it is so important when stepping off the divorce battlefield, to put down your weapons, take off your coat of armor and begin the process of navigating your post divorce life.  When co parenting is a part of that life, it is so easy to slip back into old patt

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All Things Parenting: The Secret to Effective Single Parenting During and Post Divorce with Allana Pratt all about parenting compromise post divorce coparenting divorce journey parenting parenting after divore single parenting Mar 07, 2023

This episode kicks off our All Things Parenting series discussing The Secret to Effective Single Parenting During and Post Divorce.  Today’s expert navigated a 12 year custody battle and wrote a powerful book for single mom’s entitled, When Momma’s Happy, Everyone’s Happy.

We’re about to explore e...

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JBD Team Talks - Choosing Holiday Traditions During Divorce compromise post divorce coparenting divorce journey holidays and divorce life after divorce Dec 23, 2022

One of the many aspects of our lives that changes during divorce is the way we spend the holidays and more specifically, holiday traditions. Today Karen talks about how to make the decision about what to keep, what to let go of and what to add that is new.

A key element in making a healthy choice ...

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High Conflict: An App that Simplified Coparenting! coparenting coparents divorce journey life after divorce Aug 15, 2022

If you have young children, there is an ongoing need to communicate with your coparent about the business of raising your children. 

For many high conflict divorces, we know this ongoing communication will be an invitation to more conflict and contention.  

Today’s guest explains that it doesn’...

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7 Secrets to Co-parenting with a Difficult Ex after divorce best divorce tips coparenting family Sep 22, 2020

Knowing what to say and how and when to say it when our children are struggling with, hurt or disappointed by our ex is vital to both our own personal growth and to raising healthy children.

Even after I was able to create a buffer for the criticism, hurt, inconsistency or harsh words that my ex sp...

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How Divorce Affects Children and the Changes You Need to Make coparenting Aug 16, 2018

Children learn many things during a divorce.  They are watching you even if they don’t appear to be.  What they learn depends on how you navigate divorce.

How Will Divorce Affect Your Children?

Divorce does not determine whether your children will suffer negative long term effects of your family'...

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When Your Kids Prefer Your Ex-Husband, even on Mother’s Day coparenting divorce holidays mothers day parallel parenting post-divorce May 07, 2018

When Your Kids Prefer Your Ex-Husband, even on Mother’s Day

My ex-husband’s first weekend with the kids post-divorce was Father’s Day. “How apropos”, I recall thinking to myself. Of course he bought the most adorable Welsh Terrier puppy for the kids. I remember how their faces lit up, how ecstatic ...

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Co-parenting Post Divorce - Turning Challenges Into Opportunities children and divorce coparenting difficult ex post divorce Nov 19, 2015

By Karen McMahon


Co-parenting in contentious relationships creates additional challenges above and beyond those discussed in Part 1 of this series, Co-parenting Post Divorce:  Tools & Strategies.

 

Take Off Your Armor and Put Down Your Sword

You may have been fighting for months or years over ...

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Co-parenting Post Divorce children and divorce compromise post divorce coparenting living in separate homes post divorce Nov 05, 2015

By Karen McMahon


Many challenges of co-parenting post-divorce are universal whether you have an amicable divorce or not. Other more unique challenges are faced by those emerging from a contentious divorce and custody battle.

The key to peaceful co-parenting post-divorce lies in keeping the focus...

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