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Don’t Push My Buttons! anger awareness controlling your feelings emotional growth fighting with your spouse finding opportunities personal growth personal responsibility Oct 19, 2020

What is the difference between reacting and responding? 

The most important difference is the control you have over your emotions.  When we react, it is an emotional knee-jerk snap.  It is usually as a result of someone ‘pushing our buttons’.  We can go from 0 to 100 in seconds.  It is sometimes as...

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How Can I Trust Without Getting Burned Again? anger betrayal betrayed burned burnt deceit deceived growth honesty pain relationships responsibility trust Jul 01, 2013

By Lisa Brick


There are almost always signs of deceit that announce that those around us are less than honest, trustworthy, or caring in a way that is healthy for all involved.  Knowing what the signs of deceit are can help you to avoid the fires of trust betrayed that burn so deeply and cause so...

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Grieving Well: A Pathway to Heal from Divorce acceptance anger denial depression divorce fear love Jun 10, 2013

By Karen McMahon


When our marriage falls apart we understandably find ourselves filled with fear and anger.  Learning how to grieve and to grieve well is one of the many challenges we face.  According to Tad Blackburn, a Family and Marriage pastor, we have three primary emotions, fear, anger and ...

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What Happened? anger divorce experience gift help resentment separation Jul 23, 2012

By Lisa Brick


What happened to that couple so enthusiastic to join their lives together?  How did it happen that there is so much anger, resentment, blame, and hurt that those aspirations are lying in tatters with all hope of redemption lost?

While it may not feel like it, arriving at this junct...

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